Solo travelers are free spirits that dare to make bold decisions about when and where to travel, and they are passionate in their pursuit of the magic that results from seeing new places, engaging with locals, and making new friends. Experiencing the kindness of strangers whose enthusiasm to share their culture heartwarming.
What does this have to do with dating? You’ll assess how “stuck” a person is rather than see it as “stability.” Oh sure, a potential dating partner may have had great travel experiences, but is it a way of life or something they once did on a summer vacation? Do they even have a valid passport? You’ll find yourself critically evaluating the answers to these questions.
Small Talk
It’s how the typical questions are answered that’s important. Talking about the weather is not exciting, unless they talk about that ferry crossing in the Azores during a rough storm. If asking about their favorite food elicits “delivery pizza” rather than “pizza heaven at Sorbillo’s in Naples,” you may be a little sad.
Alone Time
Most solo travelers are never really alone, but who doesn’t cherish the time to just have a morning cappuccino and people watch while contemplating life as it currently is. Will a potential date understand your need for alone time?
Friends
Solo travelers are a magnet for similar free spirits, so have friends around the world who they stay in touch with. When friends come to visit, the dating partner may not understand the need to reconnect with them on a solo outing or even a trip to visit them on their turf.
Opinions Shaped by Travel
Solo travelers learn so much about the world and make opinions based on their experiences, rather than second-hand opinions or sensational news reporting. They don’t feel the need to agree with inaccurate statements or ill-informed opinions. A dating partner may not be open to learning the truth.
Wanderlust
Spontaneity and travel is a life source, while routine is a downer. Oh sure, we all need some routine to stay healthy, but solo travelers are ready to go and have little patience for those who need to think about it. If a dating partner can’t commit to a trip, a solo traveler is happy to go on their own.
We all allow both weird and wonderful people in our lives, but quickly discern who we keep for the long run. Best wishes to all the solo travelers out there!
Travel Partners
Here are several travel brands that offer no to low single supplements for select sailings, tours, and departures.
Norwegian Cruise – Studio Cabins, Complex and Lounge
Holland America – Solo cabins and activities
Cunard – Solo cabins
Ponant – No single supplement
Silversea – 25% single supplement, welcome reception
Scenic – Solo cabin
Tauck – No single supplement
Uniworld – Solo cabin
Globus – 12 day Greek Escape including 4 night Greek Islands cruise
Insight Vacations -Splendors of Egypt, Wonders of Turkey
BodyHoliday Resort, St. Lucia
Helen Jordan is the owner of Jordan Luxury Travel, an independent affiliate of Brownell Travel, a member of Virtuoso. She can be reached at 602-692-9379 or [email protected].
